The text of this blog is a manuscript I wrote between 2004 and 2006 about my experience with depression, and what I learned from it. I claim no psychiatric or medical expertise; I only wrote what I felt. My standpoint is that of an LDS wife and mother who has experienced depression. I know that countless others have this trial as well, and have included some thoughts, feelings, and stories from several others who were good enough to share their experiences with me (names have been changed). I feel that if there is even the slightest chance that someone may gain any measure of peace or comfort from my thoughts--even if it is derived simply from knowing that you are not alone--then this is well worth my time. If you don't agree with what I say here, that's fine with me. I never mean to oversimplify or trivialize the experience of depression, and I don't claim that anything I say will cure anyone. If you or anyone you know has depression, I hope that what I say might help. (I'll warn you right now though, if you're currently depressed, you'll probably be inclined to tell yourself that this stuff doesn't apply to you.)
Since writing this, I've experienced depression a couple of times, in the form of postpartum depression that I didn't even recognize for what it was for quite awhile, since it manifested itself more in anger than in sadness. I've also had some experience with anxiety, which adds a whole new and awful dimension to the whole thing. But for any of these circumstances, I think that the more we can talk about all of it, the more power we reclaim.

-Jana

Therapists

Two individuals who may help you in deciding about seeing a professional are your bishop and your doctor. A bishop may recommend you to LDS Family Services, and they in turn will be able to counsel you from a gospel perspective. A doctor can recommend other types of professionals, all of whom will approach your problem in their own unique way. Some examples are:
Cognitive-behavioral therapy: this focuses on the internal dialog inside a person’s head and what he or she can do to change the fallacies in thinking. This approach does not focus on why a person is feeling the way they are, but rather on what they can do about it. This is, in my opinion, the type of therapy most helpful for depression victims. At least two of my own family members have gone through it, and said “it helped me a WHOLE lot” and “I often refer back to what I learned in therapy in my head”. For those interested in cognitive-behavioral therapy, I would recommend The Feeling Good Handbook by Dr. David D. Burns.
Interpersonal therapy: this focuses on a person’s relationships with others and how they affect one’s feelings. The idea is that improving social support and relationships will improve the person’s emotional well-being.
Psychoanalysis: this is the type of therapy that focuses on one’s past and on the causes of depression. It does not currently have much research supporting it, and it is probably what Elder Packer’s warning is about; it can be so much about digging too deep and placing blame that I do not believe it is a healthy way to go about dealing with depression.
It is also helpful to understand the differences in degrees and education between mental health professionals:
A Psychologist with a Ph.D. has a research degree in clinical or counseling psychology. This is the traditional degree for psychologists and takes 6-7 years.
A Psychologist with a Psy.D. has a professional degree in clinical psychology, which focuses more on practice than on research. It also takes 6-7 years to obtain.
A Counselor or Therapist has a Master’s degree in Clinical or Counseling Psychology, which takes 2 years to obtain. They are trained in psychotherapy techniques, but not much in assessment, theory, or research.
A Social Worker may have a Master’s or Ph.D. in social work. Social Workers are trained in psychotherapy technique like counselors, but with an emphasis on integrating people within community resources.[1]
If you do choose to see a Therapist, be aware of their viewpoints and what they emphasize. If you disagree with them, don’t connect with them, or don’t feel that they are helping, let them know. If it doesn’t work out, try someone new. They certainly are not all the same.
A doctor may also prescribe an antidepressant right away, if together you decide that your depression is severe enough to require that kind of immediate attention.
[1] Taken from John M. Grohol, Psy.D. http://psychcentral.com/disorders/sx22t.htm#psych

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